Take a white or cream colored piece of paper (I like Crane's because it has a wonderful texture) and tear all four edges. Write the name of the person nine times. Turn the paper sideways (90 degrees) and write your own name over his or her name nine times.
Fold the piece of paper and place it in a white ceramic bowl with nine bright copper pennies and about a shot glass worth of camphor. Fill the bowl with honey and surround it with four green candles (six inch "house hold" candles work well): one at the top, one at the bottom, one on the right side, and one on the left. Light the candles going clockwise and let them burn down. The next day, take the bowl to a large body of water and gently put it in.